Good shorts will helps, but the saddle is the ultimate factor.
Spend some extra money on a good saddle for women. I tried many saddles but the Mimic saddles work for me. As many have mentioned here, a good bike fit will help you find out what width saddle you need, or maybe your seat post is too high. Most women need wider saddles.
Everyone’s body is different so what works for one women won’t always work for another.
A lot of women like the power saddles with a deep channel. Test a few and see what you like. Most quality bib shorts will have enough padding too. Good luck!
