Johan_Kleynhans

Hi David trust you got home safely.

Man this is serious. One second faster and both would have gone down

Call me on 0833092455

We are just south of Centurion

Hi David. You are welcome to stay over with us. Johan Kleynhans

Heard the farmers almost want to give it for free for the next few months. Buy direct and cut out the middleman who will be the only one benefitting. Source 702 this afternoon.

Agreed. In some instances it is better for the kids. Abusive relationships as an example. Always a very tough situation with very tough decisions. Why I said what I said is because the father to a very large degree forms the character (lol I hope I spelled it correctly) of the child and in the case of a girl her father becomes the yardstick with which she measures men. For a boy the way his father treat the woman around him will be the example in the way he will treat woman. Therefore together or divorced the father plays a huge roll in his kids life. That is if he wants to.

I have never been divorced but had a few near misses. Also inspite of what I said in my post1212 I want to say the following based on counseling which I received. Divorce must be the absolute last choice. Try everything else before that as divorce in 99% of cases are nasty. Resolving the issues could be better in most instances. The children suffer the most. Statistics also show that there is a big chance that children of divorced parents will also divorce one day. Inspite of what leads to the divorce most people has some baggage which leads to certain behaviours. This contributes to the problem which eventually leads to the decision to get divorced. If the party/parties dont deal with this baggage they just take it to their next relationship. During my own near misses I also had to critically look at myself and had to be brutally honest with myself, made some changes to how I did things and worked hard at the relationship. One of my big deciders was the following and this I must admit influenced my decision greatly. My children. I love them too much to be without them. People say women loves the children more than a man. Dont know about that.

Cannot change the past but you can change the future. From my own experience after my serious break up ( not a divorce but we were together for a few years) I felt exactly what you desribed here. Now years after the breakup and getting a lot wiser I finally understood that what I went through then was feeling rejected. Now also looking back I realized that the relationship would have never worked and I am actually glad that we separated. I learned through this process to be able to handle the "feeling rejected" Not saying it is the case with you but it was the case with me. I was ok after we separated but when I saw her with her new guy it hit me like a hammer. I was also single at the time which made the rejection worse.

Why does it make you feel bad? Money is not everything and should not determine your level of happiness. Sorry but just a thought.

Heading into summer properly. Went riding this morning and after 09H00 it was close to 30 degrees C. Soke days close to 36 degrees. This is Hoedspruit.

Did it 3 years ago. Was tough in the beginning but now I don't even miss it apart from sport. But then there are other ways like watching it on U Tube afterwards. No ads, no repeats, dont have to think I am subsidising things I don't like....

Jip. Dirk is busy at times.I have noticed.

JK 1. For me there are a lot of similarities between the Bikehub and 4x4 forum. Like them both. Also active on Cycadfriends. Johan

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