lol, the great Orange water bottle thread Nominee for best thread 2010 if I am not mistaken. I have a fresh experience in mind. On Sunday I had responded to an advert on Gumtree in the morning and had consensus on the time to view. At 13h00, during a lunch outing I sent another quick note by sms to confirm the time, as previously agreed to meet at 15h30. I immediately received a reply sms confirming the appointment. I also went about readying myself by checking the address, throwing in petrol and aimed for a bankteller to draw cash. Out of the blue, half way there, I get an sms telling me that it has been sold and thanking me for my interest.c I was irritated by this and responded with scorn calling the seller a bad sport. But it was the end of the story. It was Gumtree. That's to be expected in a way. Isn't it? I think it worth investing some keyboard effort in this thread. The point of my posts here and the support for the term 'dibs' is simply that this is not Gumtree. The opportunity exists for transactions in the hub community to be different. To be fair and transparent. This should be easily regulated with the trader rating system. We wanted the system, and now that it exists it is not utilised. If I dibbed and failed to perform I should be called to act in the thread and consequentially and objectively receive a negative rating. If the seller pulled a move on me like the past experience, I would give a negative feedback for the benefit of others. Such sellers may leave and post their goods on other classified sites where this is acceptable. I am also pretty sure that the quality of advertising will improve: with more detail and prescriptions. The sale will improve with attention paid to the comments and questions expressed on the sale thread until it is sold and updated regularly. We are advertising to the whole country, if not the whole world. Be specific in who you would prefer to deal with and how you would like to transact. Be specific about exclusions. If you don't accept dibs ... say so ! If you fail to do this expect someone from far to have interest in your article. This person may be the first to respond openly on the thread. He/She cannot appear at your door with cash like the guy down the road. There is a need to deal fairly with this person who has loads of questions and requires more pictures and needs to know whether you can post and at what cost and who will pack the bike and oh hang on, I've never done this before and I need to find a courier. Do you really not expect this if you did not state otherwise in your ad? How do you handle this when the guy down the road phones again after only 30min and reminds that he can be there still tonight? and how do you react when the guy down the road says that he will pay an extra hundred rand? Do you really just say to yourself: "oh well first come first serve ONLY means first with the money!, stuff the other guy, that's a mission." OR do you think: "oh well, I did not list exclusions, so let me deal squarely with this purchaser and let him know that the info is accurate and what is possible and that there is this much reasonable time to reach closure; and at the same time inform the second possible purchaser of that status."