can of worms.. everyones bums are different so its pretty impossible for someone to recommend a saddle i think. people always assume its the saddle thats wrong but it can be as simple as moving it forwards or backwards a tiny bit or even checking its level. test saddles are the way to go though no question. I've never used a womans specific saddle but have always used specialized. i find all of their saddles work for me but my preference is for the phenom which is what i have on all of my bikes. i see no one has mentioned it yet which just goes to prove what i said first off about recommending saddles! when i worked in bike shops id always ask people what it was about their saddle they found uncomfortable. from what you've said, if you had come to see me at the shop id be wanting to see how you were sitting on the saddle. if I'm looking at the right one (I've just googled it) then it looks to me to have quite a wide and cushioned nose. from what you say id wonder if the saddle was too far forwards for you so you were pushing yourself backwards and therefore putting too much pressure on your 'lady bits'. it could be (depending on what you have) that changing the seat post could be the solution.. may be you need layback if you have inline. i dunno, without seeing it its difficult to say and I've probably gone on a bit too much anyway...
