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  1. SURFER
    Was the % you both are contributing based on what you were earning at the time? If yes, maybe you got a case I am not an expert
  2. SURFER
    Bella
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    info <info@bogusdesigns.co.za>
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    We stayed at a house about 50 m from farmhouse at Jamaka, very nice views. Enjoyed it. From there we traveled to Sandrift to swim at Maalgate and do wine tasting. Unfortunately Wolfberg cracks and the Arch hiking trails still closed due to the fire in the area. One can still do Stadsaal caves, Maltese cross and Sneeuberg. All these trails closer to Sandrift
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    I assume you are going to camp (not staying in houses). If it was my decision I would go for Sandrif/Driehoek or Kromrivier . The burnt veld/campsite not nice (that was in April). Sandrift also have some MTB trials (google it) and some nice wine tasting
  6. SURFER
    You right. I tried to link the view with campsite (wrong assumption)
  7. SURFER
    Been there in April this year. Had a big fire going through farm and campsite. Lots of damage. Only part of campsite destroyed. Still some nice places left
  8. SURFER
    I would guess Driehoek Farm
  9. SURFER
    Wise words.
  10. SURFER
    Enjoy, but do not commit to soon (if that is the plan)
  11. SURFER
    Don't rush it with someone new. Lots of people tends to get involve with another to soon after a divorce Vasbyt
  12. SURFER
    We are doing fine. Wednesday is date night. Went away to Cederberg mountains the past weekend. Thanks for asking
  13. SURFER
    Where do one find the results?
  14. SURFER
    Date night was discussed. Wife's idea
  15. SURFER
    After some discussions she came to the conclusion that it is better to work on our marriage. The finance probably played a role. Both of us did not put to much effort in the relationship the last couple of years. With not to much effort it is looking better. Still climbing, hiking and surf, but more quality time together (and most important, communication)
  16. SURFER
    Who was your mediator? I am looking for one
  17. SURFER
    Agree with your advice. Who do you contact to get the value of the house?
  18. SURFER
    I enjoy my house. Close to beach (surf). I will rather pay the half and take a bond on my own place than to try and buy another place. Not likely to get a similar place at beach. Memories of the past not an issue
  19. SURFER
    It is accrual. Probably end up with lawyers
  20. SURFER
    Can it get to a point that the court needs to decide who stays in house and who gets the money? My 1st choice is to stay
  21. SURFER
    Thanks.
  22. SURFER
    Never
  23. SURFER
    Thanks for the support. Did a 50 km cycle in the wind before work this morning. Awesome. The Friday can only get better. Question: I already had the house when we got married. The law say that she needs to get half of the worth of the house (today's value). I have no problem with that. I would like to stay in house after paying half the money. What if she also decide that she wants the house and not the money. Who stays?
  24. SURFER
    Will need to give her half of my pension, which will reduce my 30 years of service to 15 years. Will have a huge impact when I retire. Not possible to recover before retirement (in 8 years).
  25. SURFER
    We have been drifting apart for some time, although living in same house. Me doing my own stuff like surf, climbing/hike and cycling. We are both guilty of not paying enough attention to the relationship. There was also a 3rd party involved (her side) about 16 years ago. Did not help the relationship
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