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SURFER

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  1. We are doing fine. Wednesday is date night. Went away to Cederberg mountains the past weekend. Thanks for asking
  2. Where do one find the results?
  3. 1960 model. Still surf, climb mountain and cycle at every opportunity Got to keep moving
  4. Date night was discussed. Wife's idea
  5. After some discussions she came to the conclusion that it is better to work on our marriage. The finance probably played a role. Both of us did not put to much effort in the relationship the last couple of years. With not to much effort it is looking better. Still climbing, hiking and surf, but more quality time together (and most important, communication)
  6. Who was your mediator? I am looking for one
  7. Agree with your advice. Who do you contact to get the value of the house?
  8. I enjoy my house. Close to beach (surf). I will rather pay the half and take a bond on my own place than to try and buy another place. Not likely to get a similar place at beach. Memories of the past not an issue
  9. It is accrual. Probably end up with lawyers
  10. Can it get to a point that the court needs to decide who stays in house and who gets the money? My 1st choice is to stay
  11. Thanks.
  12. Never
  13. Thanks for the support. Did a 50 km cycle in the wind before work this morning. Awesome. The Friday can only get better. Question: I already had the house when we got married. The law say that she needs to get half of the worth of the house (today's value). I have no problem with that. I would like to stay in house after paying half the money. What if she also decide that she wants the house and not the money. Who stays?
  14. Will need to give her half of my pension, which will reduce my 30 years of service to 15 years. Will have a huge impact when I retire. Not possible to recover before retirement (in 8 years).
  15. We have been drifting apart for some time, although living in same house. Me doing my own stuff like surf, climbing/hike and cycling. We are both guilty of not paying enough attention to the relationship. There was also a 3rd party involved (her side) about 16 years ago. Did not help the relationship
  16. Kids 23 and 26. Out of house but visit a lot. Maybe the water is to cold. It shrinks important "tools"
  17. I got the same news on 29 Dec 2017. Got back home from hiking Table Mountain and she was gone. She moved out after 29 years of marriage. She made a appointment to see a lawyer on 24 Jan 2018. She has no assists on her name, although working her whole life. Only me. Got the pension fund, Savings and house. Need to give her half of all my stuff. bad
  18. Ja dit was ek. Nee, nie die buis golf gemaak nie. Het wel die volgende een gemaak
  19. Dit is my dorp. Die beste
  20. My favorite authors (only us kindle). Read 178 books from authors below from 2012 after back operation. Stieg Larsson Suzanne Collins JRR Tolkien Stephen King George R. R. Martin JL Bourne – (good read -3 book series) Lee Child John D Macdonald James Patterson Yann Martel Philip Pullman – (good read -3 book series) Andy Weir James Dashner Steve Bell, Dick Bass Bernard Cornwell- (good read) Ken Follet – (good read) Raymonf Feist- (good read)
  21. Who is your LBS? Contact Jaco at The Bike Shed and ask his advice.
  22. I agree with you. it seems that the Thule easyfold 932 - 2 rack carrier is the way to go thanks
  23. Any body have experience with the: Thule easyfold 932 - 2 rack carrier or Thule euroway G6 929 - 3 rack carrier I like the idea that the Thule easyfold 932 folds up and thus easy to store
  24. They prefer ID book, but drivers should work.
  25. That is correct.
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