Sorry guys, I do not want to be insensitive. It was touch and go between my wife and I a short while back (I made a mess of things...). We are going for 15 years married this year. It has been rough at times (financial and personal stress on a marriage just kills it) Divorse happens just far too easy It is as if girls and guys just doesn't want to go through the effort that relationships require. Being married/engaged/in a romantic relationship requires effort. It requires commitment. From both. Both have to put the other before themselves. There are sacrifices that needs to be made by both. Both needs to help the other out with whatever the other finds as important. Sacrifices doesn't need to be big things (don't leave the dishes for the other, wash the effen dishes, even if you don't feel like it). Make time for one another. Commit to the other's needs, what they value. It is really an effort. If it wasn't an effort, or no effort was needed, then you shouldn't be together. That is when people live past another. That is when the other is of no importance anymore. Just my 2c worth of my experience thus far. I absolutely love my wife and our 3 kids. I cannot think myself into loosing them. I will fight for them, I will compromise whatever way needed to keep them. Marriage is an effort to build the other. Husband to build wife up. Wife to build husband up. Then the marriage will grow. Divorse is just too easy these days All the best to everyone going through this.
