Here's hoping everyone survived silly season, ie the festive season and for those separated parents, the start of the school year. Let's get some positive vibes going, I feel a bit nostalgic, maybe its the wisdom of another year on this planet being celebrated today that is inspiring me to pen some thoughts to my brothers in arms... I'm 41 today and have never been happier, well except 2 years ago when my fixed term contract ended prematurely and I was paid out the balance, thus leaving me sitting at home being paid for a while to do nothing... (false sense of happiness I know, but I'm sure you guys get what I mean) Anyways, been about 3 years since the last relationship, and I'm not sorry 1 day for being single. Alone maybe, but definitely not lonely. Bumped into my ex MIL on the weekend, first time I saw her since the divorce in 2013. I was close to my in-laws, they were never in favor of the divorce. My ex FIL and I had a great relationship, likewise MIL, but I never could justify to myself to stay in contact. I guess out of respect for my ex wife, and also in order to try and make a clean break and try and move on with my life. But I have missed them, specially my FIL. My own dad was not really a good example of a man, not that I didn't love him for who he was. He passed away 2 weeks after my divorce was enacted, I doubt he knew, the 2 of us were not in contact during that time, he was a selfish man, my FIL is very much a self-less man. "Be that as it may"... the ex remarried about 2/3 years ago, had a kid and is living the good life. I bump into her once a year, we have a polite conversation and then go our merry way. Nothing more than that. Sometimes that part of my life seems like a movie I once watched, surreal I guess. But that's the way the cookie crumbles, so they say. I'm very thankful for my 2 sisters and my mom. Specially my middle sister, we are very close, and I am enjoying the fact that I became an uncle for the first time on 28 Feb 2019. I try and be as involved as time permits with my BIL and my niece. My sister and I speak almost daily. Anyhow, I was looking for a message, saw my conversation with Chainsaw and reread his kind words and felt inspired to write something. Peace my bretheren, keep the rubber side down!