Advice on Divorce

[Gen]

Finally...

She's FINALLY collected the summons. PROGRESS!!!!!

Sent from my SM-G950F using Tapatalk

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

Finally...

Sent from my SM-G950F using Tapatalk

yeah. It's been there for more than a month. 

[Gen]

Damn in no hurry hey.

 

"Min dae"...????

 

Sent from my SM-G950F using Tapatalk

[New Landy new life]

Well done Myles.

 

My final papers stamped by the court came yesterday and 1 hr later the ex mailed me to make sure I send copy to my HR so she can get her part of my pension.

 

And then I decided to throw a D Day celebration this weekend and the new lady in my life said yes to the invite.

Yeeeehaaaa.

[Letum911]

Well done Landy! Glad that this are looking up and moving along.

 

Myles, good luck. Hopefully all goes easy and you get on the unopposed roll nice and quick, in PTA we have roughly a 6 week wait for dates.

 

Gents when the dust settles, please send me a PM. I would like to write a short "how to and what to look out for" and would love some info from the other side of the table.

[Patchelicious]

Well done Myles.

 

My final papers stamped by the court came yesterday and 1 hr later the ex mailed me to make sure I send copy to my HR so she can get her part of my pension.

 

And then I decided to throw a D Day celebration this weekend and the new lady in my life said yes to the invite.

Yeeeehaaaa.

See how much happier you are now that you don’t have a Landy

 

Enjoy the time with the new lady, just Remember that you need to heal yourself too!

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

Well done Landy! Glad that this are looking up and moving along.

 

Myles, good luck. Hopefully all goes easy and you get on the unopposed roll nice and quick, in PTA we have roughly a 6 week wait for dates.

 

Gents when the dust settles, please send me a PM. I would like to write a short "how to and what to look out for" and would love some info from the other side of the table.

Thanks, Letum. 

 

And will do. It's something I would have finished, so I'm allowed to write about it, yeah?

[Escapee..]

Thanks, Letum. 

 

And will do. It's something I would have finished, so I'm allowed to write about it, yeah?

 

Just dont write about marriage 

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

Just dont write about marriage 

Why not? I finished that, too! 

[Patchelicious]

Why not? I finished that, too! 

Oh goodness, with this playful mood, I am sure there will be drunk dialling tonight again 

 

Chat later then I guess

[fabes]

Why not? I finished that, too!

Technically another DNF

[Bloukrans]

Well done Myles.

 

My final papers stamped by the court came yesterday and 1 hr later the ex mailed me to make sure I send copy to my HR so she can get her part of my pension.

 

And then I decided to throw a D Day celebration this weekend and the new lady in my life said yes to the invite.

Yeeeehaaaa.

Enjoy it and take your pump with

 

This one

[New Landy new life]

Technically another DNF

My first DNF in a race

[Escapee..]

Oh goodness, with this playful mood, I am sure there will be drunk dialling tonight again 

 

Chat later then I guess

 

Booty call

[Duane_Bosch]

 

And then I decided to throw a D Day celebration this weekend and the new lady in my life said yes to the invite.

Yeeeehaaaa.

I know you aren't going to listen to this advice but here goes anyway.

 

Slow it all down a bit. Or at least keep it relaxed and non committal. You don't know it yet but you are still very vulnerable and your filters suck from years of marriage so no need for them.

 

Play the field. Have fun. Don't commit to anything. We (Men) tend to dive in too quickly coz we're afraid of being alone. Don't be afraid. You live in Cape Town and there are THOUSANDS of available women patiently waiting for you. The fact that a woman is prepared to get involved with you before your divorce has gone through should be a major red flag.

[Duane_Bosch]

I know you aren't going to listen to my advice coz I did the exact same thing. Got involved too early with someone who is from a completely different planet to me in almost every single aspect of life.