My advice would be not to load any initial relationship/date/friendship. Don’t see any newly acquainted person as a potential partner. Also, don’t try and find a partner outside your interests, rather find what you really enjoy, whether it’s hiking, cycling, triathlon, throw yourself at these activities, join the clubs and groups, and you’ll meet like-minded people while doing these …. And that’s probably your best bet for finding a compatible partner. It worked for me. Also, don’t date while you still harbour negative thoughts towards your ex … or exes It taints stuff.
