Yeah man, the issue is she doesnt like change at all.
Add to that her parents are 2 minutes from our house, her sister is 5 minutes and my whole family is 10 minutes away.
Im really unhappy in SA, living here is having a really negative effect on my mental wellbeing and negatively changing my personality. There are a number of other factors involved, but what I mostly want is safety.
I want to be able to go and enjoy the outdoors without having to worry about who was harassing me to watch my car when I parked, who is watching for mugging opportunities etc. I dont do a lot of that stuff anymore because its simply too dangerous without having a group of people.