Advice on Divorce

[Honkdonk]

No outsiders needed for the trip to the airport. However a gathering of good mates once I get home would be most welcome..

New beginnings and a new normal

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

I thought that would have been obvious..apparently not

Haha! And I thought you'd gone a bit loopy.

 

Definitely didn't get the right end of that stick. 

[New Landy new life]

Good luck Honkdonk.

 

Hope you keep strong for them and try make them a promise to visit them so they have something to look forward to.

I am busy buying another Landy so my son and I can go on holiday year end.

[Kalahari Vegmot]

Good luck Honkdonk.

 

Hope you keep strong for them and try make them a promise to visit them so they have something to look forward to.

I am busy buying another Landy so my son and I can go on holiday year end.

Can work on fixing the landy during year end

 

Sorry, couldn't resist...

[New Landy new life]

No worries, carry on. [emoji1787]

 

p.s. I went on a boys trip in my mates cruizer amongst other vehicles and I commented that when we both had landies, we never used to walk obstacles, we just drove them. He had to admit I was right though, but he was just tired of the repair bills.

Edited October 2, 2018 by NoMore Landy

[DJR]

..............I am busy buying another Landy so my son and I can go on holiday year end.

 If you need a good independent, reliable and reasonably priced Landy mechanic for stuff you don't want to do yourself, there is someone in Mowbray. Let me know and I'll pm you his detail. He's worked on mine for the last 5 years or so and I have only good things to say about it. (I can't help much with divorce advice, but when it comes to keeping Landies alive, I know where to go and what to do.)  

Edited October 2, 2018 by DJR

[New Landy new life]

Shot, thanks.

Will let you know if/when I get her.

[Honkdonk]

Haha. You buggers!

 

I have a good mate who lives in Walvis Bay and does overland tours out to the desert and waaay beyond to Angola, DRC and beyond..

It's Hilux country..

[New Landy new life]

Ok, I give up.

 

Once bitten you never go back.[emoji57]

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

ambiguous post is ambiguous. 

 

You okay, Landy?

[Kalahari Vegmot]

Ok, I give up.

 

Once bitten you never go back.[emoji57]

Well spill the beans already

[New Landy new life]

Talking about Landrover guys [emoji16]

Edited October 5, 2018 by NoMore Landy

[Kranswurm]

Talking about Landrover guys [emoji16]

Good move

[HDW]

So they leave on the 18th October. I spent this afternoon getting all the documentation signed and done.

 

I sent my eldest daughter a email yesterday. We created a gmail account for her a while back, she doesn't have access to it yet. But I wanted to tell her how i felt and what my reasons were for leaving her Mom and how I felt about them leaving. I sobbed hard. Tears and snot pouring while I typed it out. I don't expect her to read it or reply, yet - I just needed to get it off my chest and some times its easier to write than it is to talk.

 

I never ever thought it would come to this

 

God, man, having kids myself this just about breaks my heart. Sorry that you have to go through this. All the best.

[Honkdonk]

Sold the kids bunk beds today.. Cleaned out their room, took my eldest daughters posters down off the wall above her bed, and packed away a lot of the stuff they want to take with them.

 

Its all a bit numbing.

[V12man]

Sold the kids bunk beds today.. Cleaned out their room, took my eldest daughters posters down off the wall above her bed, and packed away a lot of the stuff they want to take with them.

 

Its all a bit numbing.

Hang in there!! it will dull after a while - allow yourself some time and headspace.