Advice on Divorce

[eddy]

In my thoughts Eddy.

 

Thanks, G

[eddy]

How did it go Eddy ?

 

Frustratingly     but progress made.

[Slowbee]

Eish, sorry Eddy !

[New Landy new life]

Finally asked her out on sort of a date last night, just the two of us and felt like a teenager all over again.

I didn't ask where we were going or anything serious like that, just chatted and played it cool.

Was nice though.

Hope it progresses eventually into more as it feels pretty good.

 

Yes, I know guys - take it easy 007. [emoji6]

[Uni]

Finally asked her out on sort of a date last night, just the two of us and felt like a teenager all over again.

I didn't ask where we were going or anything serious like that, just chatted and played it cool.

Was nice though.

Hope it progresses eventually into more as it feels pretty good.

 

Yes, I know guys - take it easy 007. [emoji6]

yah 

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

Finally asked her out on sort of a date last night, just the two of us and felt like a teenager all over again.

I didn't ask where we were going or anything serious like that, just chatted and played it cool.

Was nice though.

Hope it progresses eventually into more as it feels pretty good.

 

Yes, I know guys - take it easy 007. [emoji6]

Awesome, dude. Hope it works out. 

[BigDL]

Finally asked her out on sort of a date last night, just the two of us and felt like a teenager all over again.

I didn't ask where we were going or anything serious like that, just chatted and played it cool.

Was nice though.

Hope it progresses eventually into more as it feels pretty good.

 

Yes, I know guys - take it easy 007. [emoji6]

Good luck boss. Must feel odd after all this time

[New Landy new life]

Good luck boss. Must feel odd after all this time

Very. Hence my fear of blowing it or misreading her signal's

[Escapee..]

Finally asked her out on sort of a date last night, just the two of us and felt like a teenager all over again.

I didn't ask where we were going or anything serious like that, just chatted and played it cool.

Was nice though.

Hope it progresses eventually into more as it feels pretty good.

 

Yes, I know guys - take it easy 007. [emoji6]

 

Nice!

Good Luck!

 

Have you guys decided on a safe word yet?

[New Landy new life]

Nice!

Good Luck!

 

Have you guys decided on a safe word yet?

No words yet - she is still in a lot of pain from her own divorce over a year ago hence me keeping it as uncomplicated and slow as possible.

[CAAD4]

Nice!

Good Luck!

 

Have you guys decided on a safe word yet?

This guy......

[eddy]

Post a picture of her bicycle....

[New Landy new life]

Post a picture of her bicycle....

She's not that kind of lass, leaves that to me.

[Honkdonk]

My ex spent a week in NZ and has landed a job down in Dunedin at a University there. She will leave end of September to start in October.

The time frame for this has been very quick. She applied and had two rounds of Skype calls and then flew over last week for some one on one meetings and on Wednesday was given the gig.

 

Hardest part is she will take our two young daughters. Initially we discussed them staying with me for the two months that she is there to get settled, but my work situation makes it very difficult for me to commit to being a full time parent over what is my busy season which includes lots of travel, long hours and weekend work. So for stability we decided they go with her now. We have worked through how we go about the maintenance and contact and while its a very bitter pill to swallow for me and the hardest decision I have ever had to make I cant fight anymore. The future for them in NZ is brighter than it is here.

I have cried buckets over this.

 

The flipside for me is that it opens my work opportunities overseas as I have a UK passport and no ties to keep me here once they are gone. I can plough head first into work and making my way to getting back up on my feet financially. 

 

But it is hard none the less.

 

Not to mention a new lady who breathes fresh life into my current existence. So while it's very much still new and exciting but I am so much wiser now than before and we are both on the same page. So like the other saga, its one day at a time. And good quality time with her beats the lack of quantity time.

[Gen]

My ex spent a week in NZ and has landed a job down in Dunedin at a University there. She will leave end of September to start in October.

The time frame for this has been very quick. She applied and had two rounds of Skype calls and then flew over last week for some one on one meetings and on Wednesday was given the gig.

 

Hardest part is she will take our two young daughters. Initially we discussed them staying with me for the two months that she is there to get settled, but my work situation makes it very difficult for me to commit to being a full time parent over what is my busy season which includes lots of travel, long hours and weekend work. So for stability we decided they go with her now. We have worked through how we go about the maintenance and contact and while its a very bitter pill to swallow for me and the hardest decision I have ever had to make I cant fight anymore. The future for them in NZ is brighter than it is here.

I have cried buckets over this.

 

The flipside for me is that it opens my work opportunities overseas as I have a UK passport and no ties to keep me here once they are gone. I can plough head first into work and making my way to getting back up on my feet financially.

 

But it is hard none the less.

 

Not to mention a new lady who breathes fresh life into my current existence. So while it's very much still new and exciting but I am so much wiser now than before and we are both on the same page. So like the other saga, its one day at a time. And good quality time with her beats the lack of quantity time.

All the best for the difficult time ahead.. can't even begin to imagine how tough it must be for you.

[New Landy new life]

Must be tough with such small children Honk, feel for you.

 

I only get to see my son one weekend a month and that is very hard.

 

He turns 18 on Friday and I hope I get to see him at least for a few hours.