Advice on Divorce

[Stretch]

Agree completely. Our divorce started off amicably, but after one round of the lawyers it turned ugly. Next moment a movers truck showed up and took the entire contents of the house.

 

Like James: Lyrics from "The Waterfall":

"There's so much stuff in my life, No room for me to grow

One day I'm going to break from my life, Due south down to Mexico, I'm going to burn down my house, It's the only way to let it go"

 

This was the 2nd best thing to burning the house down.

 

I went out and bought a new bed, a plate, knife, fork, cup, spoon and kettle. Was the best time ever.

No stuffs. Wish it stayed that way

 

 

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Cool choice

 

https://youtu.be/OrFM8dZJkOU

[Amberdrake]

Pre trail was yesterday got info from lawyer, the court has set a settlement date (to my understanding this is for them to try reaching agreement again).... before we can be assigned a court date. I'm over it ex doesn't want to settle she wants me to suffer. Burn it all would be such a great solution, I have a daughter and unfortunately it would affect her.

[Mojoman]

Pre trail was yesterday got info from lawyer, the court has set a settlement date (to my understanding this is for them to try reaching agreement again).... before we can be assigned a court date. I'm over it ex doesn't want to settle she wants me to suffer. Burn it all would be such a great solution, I have a daughter and unfortunately it would affect her.

Bad luck man, you still stuck in the house with her?

 

[Amberdrake]

Bad luck man, you still stuck in the house with her?

 

yup

[Mojoman]

yup

That's a tough one...I once stupidly had a fling with someone I worked with many moons ago....we both worked and lived at the same venue...won't be doing that again. A woman scorned can just be truly mental....

[Kranswurm]

yup

Dig a tunnel

[Amberdrake]

Dig a tunnel

Is this tumbles for her, to be filled in once she has left via it?(assume I didn't finish in time). Dad owns house me leaving helps no one unfortunately.

[Mojoman]

Is this tumbles for her, to be filled in once she has left via it?(assume I didn't finish in time). Dad owns house me leaving helps no one unfortunately.

Start coughing a lot....

[Grass Muncher]

My tenant got a girlfriend who moved in with him a week ago, last night she assaulted him for whatever reason. He looked terrible. He didn't lay a hand on her. She wouldn't stop fighting so my mom called the neighborhood security watch to scare her a bit.. We told her to move out within 2 days. . She called her ex husband to come get her.

Next day we took the guy to the police station to file in a complaint so that she doesn't later say that he assaulted her.

She came back today to come get her things we thought but she only came to fight and beated him again. I'm not gonna lie, he was drunk but he's drunk most of the time. We called the police on her this time.

 

The police came and refused to listen to a word we had to say. Instead they took her word that the guy assaulted her despite the marks and blood on his face. I feel that the police heavily discriminated against us as we were white and she was Indian.

 

They arrested him and threw him in the van. They said my mom weren't allowed to evict anyone during lockdown and threatened to arrest her as well.

 

We drove to Linden police station only to find that our beloved tenant hadn't arrived yet. 1 hour later and he arrived at the station. ????

 

The officers who made the arrest complete ignored us when they came in. Forms were filled out and our tenant was released late at night. We were called racists for no apparent reason for not addressing the 2 policemen as gentlemen. FML

 

We asked them why they didn't arrest her as well. They said that they needed a court letter to arrest someone for assault. So basically they made an unlawful arrest.

 

 

My stepdads builders are currently staying in our yard as they are working on a project nearby.

Were not allowed to throw her out so we are going to instruct them to move in with her.

[Mojoman]

My tenant got a girlfriend who moved in with him a week ago, last night she assaulted him for whatever reason. He looked terrible. He didn't lay a hand on her. She wouldn't stop fighting so my mom called the neighborhood security watch to scare her a bit.. We told her to move out within 2 days. . She called her ex husband to come get her.

Next day we took the guy to the police station to file in a complaint so that she doesn't later say that he assaulted her.

She came back today to come get her things we thought but she only came to fight and beated him again. I'm not gonna lie, he was drunk but he's drunk most of the time. We called the police on her this time.

 

The police came and refused to listen to a word we had to say. Instead they took her word that the guy assaulted her despite the marks and blood on his face. I feel that the police heavily discriminated against us as we were white and she was Indian.

 

They arrested him and threw him in the van. They said my mom weren't allowed to evict anyone during lockdown and threatened to arrest her as well.

 

We drove to Linden police station only to find that our beloved tenant hadn't arrived yet. 1 hour later and he arrived at the station.

 

The officers who made the arrest complete ignored us when they came in. Forms were filled out and our tenant was released late at night. We were called racists for no apparent reason for not addressing the 2 policemen as gentlemen. FML

 

We asked them why they didn't arrest her as well. They said that they needed a court letter to arrest someone for assault. So basically they made an unlawful arrest.

 

 

My stepdads builders are currently staying in our yard as they are working on a project nearby.

Were not allowed to throw her out so we are going to instruct them to move in with her.

Ja, get that thing off your property as soon as you can..hook or crook..I think you can start getting the paperwork ready for eviction though in level 3? 

 

[Gen]

My tenant got a girlfriend who moved in with him a week ago, last night she assaulted him for whatever reason. He looked terrible. He didn't lay a hand on her. She wouldn't stop fighting so my mom called the neighborhood security watch to scare her a bit.. We told her to move out within 2 days. . She called her ex husband to come get her.

Next day we took the guy to the police station to file in a complaint so that she doesn't later say that he assaulted her.

She came back today to come get her things we thought but she only came to fight and beated him again. I'm not gonna lie, he was drunk but he's drunk most of the time. We called the police on her this time.

 

The police came and refused to listen to a word we had to say. Instead they took her word that the guy assaulted her despite the marks and blood on his face. I feel that the police heavily discriminated against us as we were white and she was Indian.

 

They arrested him and threw him in the van. They said my mom weren't allowed to evict anyone during lockdown and threatened to arrest her as well.

 

We drove to Linden police station only to find that our beloved tenant hadn't arrived yet. 1 hour later and he arrived at the station. [emoji33]

 

The officers who made the arrest complete ignored us when they came in. Forms were filled out and our tenant was released late at night. We were called racists for no apparent reason for not addressing the 2 policemen as gentlemen. FML

 

We asked them why they didn't arrest her as well. They said that they needed a court letter to arrest someone for assault. So basically they made an unlawful arrest.

 

 

My stepdads builders are currently staying in our yard as they are working on a project nearby.

Were not allowed to throw her out so we are going to instruct them to move in with her.

That's wild.

 

Surely because she isn't the tenant she is trespassing..and your agreement isn't with her but him...while you may not evict the tenant without a court order atm..you surely can have a trespasser removed?

[Amberdrake]

Highly doubt she is a signatory give her a letter to evict and then follow eviction process of illegal occupation. Had same thing with ex. Only way to get her out is via that route since she has no agreement with owner.

[The Bull Shark]

That's a tough one...I once stupidly had a fling with someone I worked with many moons ago....we both worked and lived at the same venue...won't be doing that again. A woman scorned can just be truly mental....

 

It's worse if she is a red head also. 

[Grass Muncher]

SAPD said she lives here as all her stuff still was here. They said we can only evict her if we evict the rightful tenant first. So the rightful tenant agreed to ✌️leave✌️. As soon as she left our property we changed the locks threw all her stuff out and hired a rumble removal truck to take it to the furthest storage unit we could find.

 

Her stuff is gone but we're waiting for her to come and get the keys for the storage unit.

[Honkdonk]

I have a very difficult complicated situation that I need help with. I cant post details here as it is very sensitive

 

Any legal eagles here that can offer some pro bono advice. Please DM me

[xamnam]

Morning

 

Can anyone please recommend a honest clued up reasonably priced divorce lawyer in the Cape Town area, preferably southern suburbs or town area

 

Thanks in advance