Advice on Divorce

[Hairy]

and then when you "visit" her, you steel back the whole silver set piece by piece?

 

you may have to endure the meals, but your silverware set will eventually be complete!

 

 

Charge her for storage.... put it in a box and let her take it away asap - as well as everything you don't like she bought.... you head will be better off not seeing it every day.

[V12man]

and then when you "visit" her, you steel back the whole silver set piece by piece?

 

you may have to endure the meals, but your silverware set will eventually be complete!

Therapy is far more expensive than cutlery....

[HDW]

Anyways, eventually you try dating, and lord almighty did I have my share of crazies. I went the Tinder route, Badoo, etc etc (be warned, they are ALL crazy, think about that Crazy-vs-Hot-scale video on youtube, that guy knows his stuff!) Narcissistic women are the most dangerous thing on this planet because they use sex as a weapon. And we are men, therefore we are soft (hard?) targets. I nearly burned my fingers badly, twice. Yes initially its fun dating a seemingly nymphomaniac chick, but that is all part of a beautifully sick masterplan to rid you of all your self-respect and emasculate you to the point where you end up sitting down to take a piss. Another 2 years hiding the hurt and shame and the dark thoughts and pretending to be ok. I battled on.

 

 

My man, now you're preaching. 

[HDW]

and then when you "visit" her, you steel back the whole silver set piece by piece?

 

you may have to endure the meals, but your silverware set will eventually be complete!

 

Hahaha, this is the best post on this thread, by a mile, hahaha. No act too petty when it comes to things like this. Get back the cutlery, even if it's the last thing you do.

Edited March 8, 2019 by HDW

[New Landy new life]

Thank goodness I got the dishwasher as my mate gave it to me 10 years ago as it was broken and I managed to fix it as was only an earth fault

 

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[gemmerbal]

Your didn't just use that "fur babies" expression....be gone with you!!

They are what kept me from taking a piece of rope to the garage roof truss. Haha... i can laugh about it now you know, but at the time... [emoji51]

 

 

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[gemmerbal]

I had to buy a new braairooster. And curtains. But all in all i did ok. I only started biking after the divorce [emoji23]

 

 

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[gemmerbal]

My man, now you're preaching.

I can tell you some stories hey, was an interesting phase in my life. [emoji85][emoji23]

 

 

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[Red Robin]

So I got an sms again from the ex today saying she is coming to fetch all her remaining items that she left at my house including all the pictures on the wall, the silver knives and forks, the fancy crockery I use for guests and the dining room table and chairs.

 

I had hoped she had forgotten about all that stuff as I still use/need them.

 

Another blow to my future bank balance.

 

Oh holes !

It's an opportunity to start afresh with new stuff that will in turn create new happy memories. Cathartic in a way.

[HDW]

So I got an sms again from the ex today saying she is coming to fetch all her remaining items that she left at my house including all the pictures on the wall, the silver knives and forks, the fancy crockery I use for guests and the dining room table and chairs.

 

I had hoped she had forgotten about all that stuff as I still use/need them.

 

Another blow to my future bank balance.

 

Oh holes !

 

Reply and tell her to hurry up, she can't come soon enough. All your guests have been commenting on how bad your taste is, but you kept on telling them its her stuff. Then they said something like: "Aahh, makes sense, doesn't it".

 

Let us know what she replies then.

[Amberdrake]

Reply and tell her to hurry up, she can't come soon enough. All your guests have been commenting on how bad your taste is, but you kept on telling them its her stuff. Then they said something like: "Aahh, makes sense, doesn't it".

 

Let us know what she replies then.

I also want to do things like this, but I know that this women will be part of my life as we have daughter that will need her and its not gonna change. Doing such petty things will just upset her and then result in difficult times ahead. TBH I find it hard because of all the animosity my family has for her. They dont feel she should be punished etc etc etc, but yea that wont be best for my daughter IMHO. Strange when your the one trying to calm the world after your the one that  has been flooded with emotional blackmail type messages etc.

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

I'm sitting at home, at my desk, thinking that my biggest concern over the past 2 weeks (after $$, of course) is that the label on my recently purchased curtains was wrong. Instead of being 2.1m wide and 1.5 tall (like on the diagram with the tick box on the packaging) they were 2.1m tall and 1.5 wide. Didn't have the energy to take em back, so I'll just take 'em up and have heavy hems on my curtains. LOL.  

[Gen]

I'm sitting at home, at my desk, thinking that my biggest concern over the past 2 weeks (after $$, of course) is that the label on my recently purchased curtains was wrong. Instead of being 2.1m wide and 1.5 tall (like on the diagram with the tick box on the packaging) they were 2.1m tall and 1.5 wide. Didn't have the energy to take em back, so I'll just take 'em up and have heavy hems on my curtains. LOL.

Pinterest for hacks.

 

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[Hairy]

Nooit, you have just purchased a nice 2.1x1.5m drop sheet for working on your bikes in the house ... go out an buy new curtains

I'm sitting at home, at my desk, thinking that my biggest concern over the past 2 weeks (after $$, of course) is that the label on my recently purchased curtains was wrong. Instead of being 2.1m wide and 1.5 tall (like on the diagram with the tick box on the packaging) they were 2.1m tall and 1.5 wide. Didn't have the energy to take em back, so I'll just take 'em up and have heavy hems on my curtains. LOL.  

[gemmerbal]

I also want to do things like this, but I know that this women will be part of my life as we have daughter that will need her and its not gonna change. Doing such petty things will just upset her and then result in difficult times ahead. TBH I find it hard because of all the animosity my family has for her. They dont feel she should be punished etc etc etc, but yea that wont be best for my daughter IMHO. Strange when your the one trying to calm the world after your the one that  has been flooded with emotional blackmail type messages etc.

 

You make a good point. My mom was always the one trying to keep the peace because my toppie was a bit of a so-and-so, and i thought at the time she just needed to lighten up. You know how a laaitie is always looking at his dad as his hero...

 

So when I finally grew a brain around 24 years old, I realized but actually she is the hero.

 

I hope my point comes across correctly.

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

Nooit, you have just purchased a nice 2.1x1.5m drop sheet for working on your bikes in the house ... go out an buy new curtains

Nah, that's for the curtain that was removed.