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So I got an sms again from the ex today saying she is coming to fetch all her remaining items that she left at my house including all the pictures on the wall, the silver knives and forks, the fancy crockery I use for guests and the dining room table and chairs.

 

I had hoped she had forgotten about all that stuff as I still use/need them.

 

Another blow to my future bank balance.

 

Oh holes !

Give her half?

 

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Unfortunately it was all inherited stuff from her Family which was excluded in our ANC, so it's all her's. 

Charge her for storage.... put it in a box and let her take it away asap - as well as everything you don't like she bought.... you head will be better off not seeing it every day.

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and then when you "visit" her, you steel back the whole silver set piece by piece?

 

you may have to endure the meals, but your silverware set will eventually be complete!

 

 

Charge her for storage.... put it in a box and let her take it away asap - as well as everything you don't like she bought.... you head will be better off not seeing it every day.

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Anyways, eventually you try dating, and lord almighty did I have my share of crazies. I went the Tinder route, Badoo, etc etc (be warned, they are ALL crazy, think about that Crazy-vs-Hot-scale video on youtube, that guy knows his stuff!) Narcissistic women are the most dangerous thing on this planet because they use sex as a weapon. And we are men, therefore we are soft (hard?) targets. I nearly burned my fingers badly, twice. Yes initially its fun dating a seemingly nymphomaniac chick, but that is all part of a beautifully sick masterplan to rid you of all your self-respect and emasculate you to the point where you end up sitting down to take a piss. Another 2 years hiding the hurt and shame and the dark thoughts and pretending to be ok. I battled on.

 

 

My man, now you're preaching. 

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and then when you "visit" her, you steel back the whole silver set piece by piece?

 

you may have to endure the meals, but your silverware set will eventually be complete!

 

Hahaha, this is the best post on this thread, by a mile, hahaha. No act too petty when it comes to things like this. Get back the cutlery, even if it's the last thing you do.

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Thank goodness I got the dishwasher as my mate gave it to me 10 years ago as it was broken and I managed to fix it as was only an earth fault

 

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Your didn't just use that "fur babies" expression....be gone with you!!

They are what kept me from taking a piece of rope to the garage roof truss. Haha... i can laugh about it now you know, but at the time... [emoji51]

 

 

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I had to buy a new braairooster. And curtains. But all in all i did ok. I only started biking after the divorce [emoji23]

 

 

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My man, now you're preaching.

I can tell you some stories hey, was an interesting phase in my life. [emoji85][emoji23]

 

 

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So I got an sms again from the ex today saying she is coming to fetch all her remaining items that she left at my house including all the pictures on the wall, the silver knives and forks, the fancy crockery I use for guests and the dining room table and chairs.

 

I had hoped she had forgotten about all that stuff as I still use/need them.

 

Another blow to my future bank balance.

 

Oh holes !

It's an opportunity to start afresh with new stuff that will in turn create new happy memories. Cathartic in a way.

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