Advice on Divorce

[Mike Bike]

I would like to add to DJR and the Beards comments. I’m not married but been with my Mrs and her daughters for 10 yrs. kids are 14 and 16. We have a delinquent sperm donor who professes love but actions show nothing. The kids after our Christmas holiday turned round to the sperm donor and told him they don’t want him in their lives any more. They want a responsible parent and he isn’t it. So love your kids(even non biological) they give the love back and will see thru the crap of an angry split up and soon see who is the tool

[Amberdrake]

I have seen this first hand with my friend and his now Fiance, they love her too bits. Mom is the main parental guardian, due too his work at the time of divorce. They are hoping to have kids around more often and have even managed to get more week days. 

I would like to add to DJR and the Beards comments. I’m not married but been with my Mrs and her daughters for 10 yrs. kids are 14 and 16. We have a delinquent sperm donor who professes love but actions show nothing. The kids after our Christmas holiday turned round to the sperm donor and told him they don’t want him in their lives any more. They want a responsible parent and he isn’t it. So love your kids(even non biological) they give the love back and will see thru the crap of an angry split up and soon see who is the tool

[Amberdrake]

Soooo

Ex strips her clutch this mng (the car) on way to work (not exactly sure what happened tbh)

I get a call, whats wrong with car possibly, so im like no freaking clue (TBH I was dead tired).

Few minutes later new call, can you fetch me, I'm like nope sorry impossible just got home after working all night and being up 24hrs I can't see straight its irresponsible for me to drive now(50km in traffic odd).

 

So i'm the bad guy now cause I had other things going.

 

Days like today remind me why I left.

[New Landy new life]

Soooo

Ex strips her clutch this mng (the car) on way to work (not exactly sure what happened tbh)

I get a call, whats wrong with car possibly, so im like no freaking clue (TBH I was dead tired).

Few minutes later new call, can you fetch me, I'm like nope sorry impossible just got home after working all night and being up 24hrs I can't see straight its irresponsible for me to drive now(50km in traffic odd).

 

So i'm the bad guy now cause I had other things going.

 

Days like today remind me why I left.

Same happened to me in the beginning, car needs service, please can you help/do the service and some repairs. Sorry babes, that privilege is no longer applicable. Have to do my own laundry and cooking now. Get a mechanic dear.

At the time I was too angry with her but I still wouldn't do it now either.

That's the new reality of a broken partnership.

You do your own stuff and I will do mine.

 

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[Mudsimus]

Soooo

Ex strips her clutch this mng (the car) on way to work (not exactly sure what happened tbh)

I get a call, whats wrong with car possibly, so im like no freaking clue (TBH I was dead tired).

Few minutes later new call, can you fetch me, I'm like nope sorry impossible just got home after working all night and being up 24hrs I can't see straight its irresponsible for me to drive now(50km in traffic odd).

 

So i'm the bad guy now cause I had other things going.

 

Days like today remind me why I left.

I hope she wasn't left stranded next to the road????

[Amberdrake]

I hope she wasn't left stranded next to the road

She was, however she made other arrangements. I am being serious here I was in no state to drive the distance required. My father and sister was standing next to me when call came and sister was shaking her head before I even said no. She could have called my dad he would also have helped.

 

I am the go to guy because she wants to reconcile, I don't. So i have to play the bad guy and distance myself, and force my time with kid or be left with her interrupting it all the time.

I left for many reasons, none of them have changed in her other than she decided to see a counselor now. I did say I would also attend for best of my Child after divorce, but her appointment clashed with my time to drop of kid at school....... something she knew it would do.

So I politely declined and we will have to make alternate arranged time.

[HDW]

Both of these scenarios would have been so satisfying to me. People will divorce you, and then still ask for the perks they had of being married to you/being your friend. If that isn't the most self centered thing I've heard all week I don't know what will be.

 

That's like phoning her at 1 am, drunk, for a a booty call, asking if she could help you out... you know, because she used to? Wtf

[CDK]

Both of these scenarios would have been so satisfying to me. People will divorce you, and then still ask for the perks they had of being married to you/being your friend. If that isn't the most self centered thing I've heard all week I don't know what will be.

 

That's like phoning her at 1 am, drunk, for a a booty call, asking if she could help you out... you know, because she used to? Wtf

You have to keep your wife mate. If i get home at one, even sober and ask for a bit of love there will be hell to pay that will end with me not evening having the privilege of the sleeping inside the house.     

[HDW]

You have to keep your wife mate. If i get home at one, even sober and ask for a bit of love there will be hell to pay that will end with me not evening having the privilege of the sleeping inside the house.     

 

Haha, isn't that true. Just recently I went out with my friends for a couple of drinks and when I came home at like 2 am or something I got in bed and tried to kiss my wife, and she says she nearly puked. Ok fair enough, she is 8 months pregnant, but that's life. Men are such pigs

[Duane_Bosch]

I hope she wasn't left stranded next to the road

SEP.

[Slowbee]

Haha, isn't that true. Just recently I went out with my friends for a couple of drinks and when I came home at like 2 am or something I got in bed and tried to kiss my wife, and she says she nearly puked. Ok fair enough, she is 8 months pregnant, but that's life. Men are such pigs

Well someone has to bring home the bacon.

[Stretch]

Haha, isn't that true. Just recently I went out with my friends for a couple of drinks and when I came home at like 2 am or something I got in bed and tried to kiss my wife, and she says she nearly puked. Ok fair enough, she is 8 months pregnant, but that's life. Men are such pigs

Hope you got an Uber...

[HDW]

Hope you got an Uber...

Ek bestuur op my beste as ek n paar happe in het.

[Patensie]

My strategy: think long-term and roll with the punches, even if it means taking a few (personal) jabs on the chin. However, set boundries and build that wall. (i am NOT a Drumpth supporter). My kids first.

[Captain Fastbastard Mayhem]

My strategy: think long-term and roll with the punches, even if it means taking a few (personal) jabs on the chin. However, set boundries and build that wall. (i am NOT a Drumpth supporter). My kids first.

You first. Then your kids. You can't take care of them if you don't take care of you.

[New Landy new life]

Having some fun time with my Son and his/my mates last weekend.

 

 

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Edited February 25, 2019 by New Landy - new life