MJ the Expat Posted April 30, 2018 Share As a (girl) friend of one once said .... best way to get over a guy is to get under another one. Could be said the converse holds true.The best revenge you can take on a guy that steals your girl is to let him keep her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJ the Expat Posted April 30, 2018 Share We all know that the only way to get the best chicks is to drive a modified Raptor, the higher the suspension and the brighter the roof mounted spot lights, the hotter the girl!Well, in Benoni, just driving a car will work too... Odinson, Patchelicious and Kalahari Vegmot 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJ the Expat Posted April 30, 2018 Share Just on another note: I see mention was made on the wearing of wedding rings...Thanks to my father in law, I don't have to wear a wedding ring...In laws have been married more than 40 years. My father in law is a GP so he stopped wearing his...Me, I am not a GP...I just kept loosing mine. My response then was: I don't need to wear a ring to remind me that I am married. Look at your dad. Tomorrow is our 8th anniversary...suspect I might get one of those silicone rings to wear...#shewearsthepants New Landy new life, intern, Duane_Bosch and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stretch Posted April 30, 2018 Share On point there kosmo - Maybe a bit of overshare on my part but helps with the healing process. Marvin Gaye said it first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honkdonk Posted May 8, 2018 Share Its court appearance day today. So if all goes well she will walk out of court with a piece of paper that says we are no longer married.. It will plastered all over her FB page - she's like that. So a celebration is in order. Today marks a new beginning in life Capricorn, Captain Fastbastard Mayhem, Bateleur1 and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gen Posted May 8, 2018 Share Its court appearance day today. So if all goes well she will walk out of court with a piece of paper that says we are no longer married.. It will plastered all over her FB page - she's like that. So a celebration is in order. Today marks a new beginning in lifeAll the best... Sent from my SM-G950F using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Fastbastard Mayhem Posted May 8, 2018 Share Its court appearance day today. So if all goes well she will walk out of court with a piece of paper that says we are no longer married.. It will plastered all over her FB page - she's like that. So a celebration is in order. Today marks a new beginning in lifeGood luck, and congratulations!!! Already been told by multiple people that I need to have a divorce party as soon as it's final. Honkdonk and Gen 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amberdrake Posted May 8, 2018 Share Glad to see you guys coping well, my friend was a wreck after his seperation/divorce initially. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrahamS2 Posted May 8, 2018 Share We are part of the animal kingdom.. You are probably emitting a scent unbeknownst to you.... Can any ladies confirm this That scent is called confidence. It's what a haircut and decent set of rags does for you Patchelicious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honkdonk Posted May 8, 2018 Share I also turn 45 next week Tuesday so a good knees up could be in order this weekend.. On a side note, I had coffee with two ladies, separately of course, this last week. Both asked me and both going through nasty splits after years of marriage. One is totally devastated and cant see the wood for the trees at the moment. I was very wary of her initial approaches and made things clear from the start that there is no ways I'd entertain anything other than a coffee. The other one was more interesting and looking for advice, but I dare not go any further. She is also damaged goods currently and I would rather stay far away. I am very wary of the dynamics of a male/female relationship and how things can easily get misconstrued. So I would rather stay far away. Interesting though to hear their stories. The lives people lead and just when you think everything is going hunky dory on the surface, underneath its a total mess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patchelicious Posted May 8, 2018 Share That scent is called confidence. It's what a haircut and decent set of rags does for you As with MTBing, confidence is key. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neil Neil Neil Posted May 8, 2018 Share I also turn 45 next week Tuesday so a good knees up could be in order this weekend.. On a side note, I had coffee with two ladies, separately of course, this last week. Both asked me and both going through nasty splits after years of marriage. One is totally devastated and cant see the wood for the trees at the moment. I was very wary of her initial approaches and made things clear from the start that there is no ways I'd entertain anything other than a coffee. The other one was more interesting and looking for advice, but I dare not go any further. She is also damaged goods currently and I would rather stay far away. I am very wary of the dynamics of a male/female relationship and how things can easily get misconstrued. So I would rather stay far away. Interesting though to hear their stories. The lives people lead and just when you think everything is going hunky dory on the surface, underneath its a total mess.Being in a relationship is not required to be intimate with another human, male or female. As long as all parties are fully aware of the situation and intention. It's 2018 not 19voetsak. BigDL 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honkdonk Posted May 8, 2018 Share Being in a relationship is not required to be intimate with another human, male or female. As long as all parties are fully aware of the situation and intention. It's 2018 not 19voetsak.True story, but after a decade and then some of not being out in the field there is an adjustment period that takes some getting used too. Neil Neil Neil, DJR, New Landy new life and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
New Landy new life Posted May 8, 2018 Share Being in a relationship is not required to be intimate with another human, male or female. As long as all parties are fully aware of the situation and intention. It's 2018 not 19voetsak. I agree. Have also a female friend that I have been seeing since my split and we have been hanging out with no complications or intent to take things further but we at least spend time in each others company doing fun stuff now and again when we feel like company. Hacc, Neil Neil Neil and DJR 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HDW Posted May 8, 2018 Share I also turn 45 next week Tuesday so a good knees up could be in order this weekend.. On a side note, I had coffee with two ladies, separately of course That was your first mistake. 2 birds with one stone, go for it! Pics or it didn't happen, though. Edited May 8, 2018 by HDW Honkdonk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mudsimus Posted May 8, 2018 Share Just on another note: I see mention was made on the wearing of wedding rings...Thanks to my father in law, I don't have to wear a wedding ring...In laws have been married more than 40 years. My father in law is a GP so he stopped wearing his...Me, I am not a GP...I just kept loosing mine. My response then was: I don't need to wear a ring to remind me that I am married. Look at your dad. I have a gynecologist friend who also lost his ring while on the job. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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