Uni Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 So finally have someone really special in my life again, things are looking up.Yay... have fun with this new chapter New Landy new life 1
Red Robin Posted January 18, 2019 Posted January 18, 2019 So finally have someone really special in my life again, things are looking up.Great news! New Landy new life 1
Amberdrake Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I have been following this thread since start, It encouraged me to work on my relationship when it started. Unfortunately the results were not all that excellent. Long story short things gone from bad to worse and I decided to end it, wife did not take it very well and I am staying with family. Fortunately I get to see daughter regularly ATM and should continue that way. My friends and family have been INSANE amount of support. Saturday was worst day of my life in every way possible. Paul Ruinaard, BigDL and Steven Knoetze (sk27) 3
Captain Fastbastard Mayhem Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 (edited) Kaak dude, so sorry to hear that. ☹️ Sterkte. Don't be shy to post here and ask for advice / info etc. You and your kid are the most important things. Remember that. Edited January 24, 2019 by Captain Fatbastard Mayhem New Landy new life 1
Amberdrake Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Thanks fortunately the IRL side has things covered mostly. It is disturbing how the smallest thing will set you off into a depressed/upset state tho. Want to get back on bike next week think it will help, this weekend I get Daughter so gonna spend all time I can with her. Steven Knoetze (sk27), Captain Fastbastard Mayhem, Hairy and 3 others 6
New Landy new life Posted January 24, 2019 Author Posted January 24, 2019 Going to take quite some time to get used to all the mood swings.Sterkte voor
Hacc Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I had a motivational lunch time moment: Steven Knoetze (sk27), Ispeed_V, candz1 and 2 others 5
Ispeed_V Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Some more motivation Amberdrake, DJR, Hacc and 1 other 4
BigDL Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I have been following this thread since start, It encouraged me to work on my relationship when it started. Unfortunately the results were not all that excellent. Long story short things gone from bad to worse and I decided to end it, wife did not take it very well and I am staying with family. Fortunately I get to see daughter regularly ATM and should continue that way. My friends and family have been INSANE amount of support. Saturday was worst day of my life in every way possible.Sorry to hear this - hope it gets better going forward Amberdrake 1
dev null Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I had a motivational lunch time moment: Screenshot_20190124-131032_Instagram.jpgScreenshot_20190124-131108_Instagram.jpgScreenshot_20190124-131343_Instagram.jpgScreenshot_20190124-131201_Instagram.jpg I can't like this post enough! So, my home is currently needing some attention. But I spend most of my weekends on the bike with my son(s), and we have more bikes than some bike shops. So, my brothers sometimes ask me why I spend so much money on bikes and races with my kids, and I tell them that I only have my kids for a very short time before they grow up and leave home. I will have more than enough time and money once they left home to fix up the home and give it some attention. Red Robin, HDW, DJR and 7 others 10
Patensie Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I have been following this thread since start, It encouraged me to work on my relationship when it started. Unfortunately the results were not all that excellent. Long story short things gone from bad to worse and I decided to end it, wife did not take it very well and I am staying with family. Fortunately I get to see daughter regularly ATM and should continue that way. My friends and family have been INSANE amount of support. Saturday was worst day of my life in every way possible.sterkte boet. I'm in the process as well. Some days are better than others. Some are just plain ****. I too experienced grace and empathy from people from whom I didn't even expect it. Take it day by day and get counseling for yourself and your kid. My therapist is much harder than me based on the advice she gives regarding my (ex)wife. A number of hubbers reached out and gave me sound advice. I am forever thankful for that. Something positive:I'm taking my kids camping for the first time this weekend. Looking forward, but also anxious about how it will work out. They're 6 & 4. Delarey, BigDL, HDW and 2 others 5
Kranswurm Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 sterkte boet. I'm in the process as well. Some days are better than others. Some are just plain ****. I too experienced grace and empathy from people from whom I didn't even expect it. Take it day by day and get counseling for yourself and your kid. My therapist is much harder than me based on the advice she gives regarding my (ex)wife. A number of hubbers reached out and gave me sound advice. I am forever thankful for that. Something positive:I'm taking my kids camping for the first time this weekend. Looking forward, but also anxious about how it will work out. They're 6 & 4.Don't lose them....or you really will be in the dwang Hairy, Steven Knoetze (sk27) and Patensie 3
Hairy Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 tie a rope to them and anchor this to the tent ..... problem solved!sterkte boet. I'm in the process as well. Some days are better than others. Some are just plain ****. I too experienced grace and empathy from people from whom I didn't even expect it. Take it day by day and get counseling for yourself and your kid. My therapist is much harder than me based on the advice she gives regarding my (ex)wife.A number of hubbers reached out and gave me sound advice. I am forever thankful for that.Something positive:I'm taking my kids camping for the first time this weekend. Looking forward, but also anxious about how it will work out. They're 6 & 4. Patensie 1
Kranswurm Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 tie a rope to them and anchor this to the tent ..... problem solved!Slightly off topic but,In Bots my son decided instead of a party for his 10th birthday he asked if we could do Central Kalahari and take his friendsWe invited the kids 4 of themWe joked in the truck on the way that we better not let them out of our site and have them eaten by lion.3rd night we had 6 lion walk into our firelight after dinner.I stuck to those kids like glue DJR, Bateleur1, Red Robin and 8 others 11
Amberdrake Posted January 26, 2019 Posted January 26, 2019 Slightly off topic but,In Bots my son decided instead of a party for his 10th birthday he asked if we could do Central Kalahari and take his friendsWe invited the kids 4 of themWe joked in the truck on the way that we better not let them out of our site and have them eaten by lion.3rd night we had 6 lion walk into our firelight after dinner.I stuck to those kids like glueSorry that gave me a good chuckle at your expense
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