Advice on Divorce

[Honkdonk]

For sure Landy.

 

Few understand and it helps to have a thread like this to talk openly about it.

When I am next in CT (mid Nov it looks like)  I'll send you a PM and we can have a beer and chat.

[Gnarly]

All the very best for tomorrow Honkdonk. Can't fathom what you are going through. Take care.

[Slowbee]

For sure Landy.

 

Few understand and it helps to have a thread like this to talk openly about it.

When I am next in CT (mid Nov it looks like)  I'll send you a PM and we can have a beer and chat.

 

Hell when next you are in CT we will all buy you a beer !

 

Wishing you all the best and strength for today. Definitely thinking of you this morning.

 

Wish I had the words to say more but I dont.

[Sepia]

Yes, strength to you Donk.

[Jakkals.]

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[Honkdonk]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

[Help.Me.]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

Strongs i cannot imagine your pain...........  

[Slowbee]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

I cant like your post. It just feels wrong.

[Red Robin]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

Wishing you strength in the days ahead.

[BigDL]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

**** China, you have got me all teary here. Don’t know you but my heart is heavy for you. Stay strong, stay positive.

[Ispeed_V]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

Strength to you. 

[Steven Knoetze (sk27)]

I popped onto this thread just to try and get some advice vicariously as my fiance is still having issues with her ex.

I will admit to only reading from pages 1-16 and then to page 69 and to date.

One thing I must say is that, for a cycling forum where you get to know literally 100's of people you are likely to never meet, there are some of the best guys I have ever met.

Keep up the good work and strong's to anyone going through this.

I lost my wife to cancer 21 months ago, after only 5 years of happy marriage, and while it is not the same situation, the same loneliness and questions on life come to light. But there is always light at the end of the tunnel...............

Edited October 19, 2018 by Steven Knoetze (sk27)

[bj horn]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

Strongs .They grow up fast and before you know it they are 18 and make up their own minds as to what they want to do and see.Bet they will be back.Blood is thicker than water

[Steven Knoetze (sk27)]

One of my good friends lost his wife a year ago. You can still see the blank spots behind his eyes. Terrible disease. Good luck with moving forward. 

 

Don't want to derail this thread but yes it is a terrible disease.

We were lucky in that treatment bought us 18 months to make our peace with this curve-ball and say our goodbyes. Still does not make it any easier.

My loneliness led to me meeting an amazing lady, who was very recently divorced. After some mutual comforting we have an amazing little 6 month old bundle of joy so its all worked out pretty decently given the circumstances. (Suppose that's where the use protection and be careful comes into it, not that I would change anything now)

It is amazing how much your life can change in as little as a year or 2 and that is why it is important to keep your chin up or you will miss the opportunity standing right in front of you.

Damn that sounds all philosophical and clever so let me end it there before I ruin it.

Have a good weekend guys

Edited October 19, 2018 by Steven Knoetze (sk27)

[Stretch]

Don't want to derail this thread but yes it is a terrible disease.

We were lucky in that treatment bought us 18 months to make our peace with this curve-ball and say our goodbyes. Still does not make it any easier.

My loneliness led to me meeting an amazing lady, who was very recently divorced. After some mutual comforting we have an amazing little 6 month old bundle of joy so its all worked out pretty decently given the circumstances. (Suppose that's where the use protection and be careful comes into it, not that I would change anything now)

It is amazing how much your life can change in as little as a year or 2 and that is why it is important to keep your chin up or you will miss the opportunity standing right in front of you.

Damn that sounds all philosophical and clever so let me end it there before I ruin it.

Have a good weekend guys [emoji106]

And I don't want you derail your post... But "mutual comforting" made me smile.. Thanks for that

[Stretch]

It is done.

 

Off they go to new horizons, new beginnings and a new life.

We swam, we walked, we talked and we cried when it was time to say goodbye.. Alot

Dude.. You've the mental strength to get through this... Don't forget those nightly WhatsApp messages and calls