Skubarra Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 What ruins marriages and relationships is no communication, loss of respect, cheating, incompatability and many other things, INCLUDING the ascribing of certain rigid roles to a certain sex. This ^^^ I think its perfectly fine to have rigid ideas about the roles of different sexes. Just make sure you marry someone who share those principles. If you don't the blame is on you, not on "society that's changing" Red Robin, Thor Buttox, Gen and 2 others 5
Captain Fastbastard Mayhem Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Mutual respect, communication, honesty and actually being able to get on well.. in other words being able to coexist ..to me is more important than love..I have seen far to many toxic relationship to say hold on to love....it alone isn't enough.. that is just my opinion. Yeah, you can love someone without liking them, and then later on down the road the love turns to resentment if the liking doesn't return. This ^^^ I think its perfectly fine to have rigid ideas about the roles of different sexes. Just make sure you marry someone who share those principles. If you don't the blame is on you, not on "society that's changing"Yeah. 100% Gen 1
Slowbee Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Mod Note: This discussion is slowly moving away from the original intention of advice on divorce and support for those going through a tough time. If you want to carry on the discussion in the direction that it is please do so on the Gillette thread, as that is where the current line of discussion will have more relevance. Patensie, Hacc, Steven Knoetze (sk27) and 2 others 5
Captain Fastbastard Mayhem Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Mod Note: This discussion is slowly moving away from the original intention of advice on divorce and support for those going through a tough time. If you want to carry on the discussion in the direction that it is please do so on the Gillette thread, as that is where the current line of discussion will have more relevance. ????????????????
Stretch Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Mod Note: This discussion is slowly moving away from the original intention of advice on divorce and support for those going through a tough time. If you want to carry on the discussion in the direction that it is please do so on the Gillette thread, as that is where the current line of discussion will have more relevance. Someone's gonna look at this post down the line and say ...."the what thread?.. The Gillette thread?? " [emoji1787] Slowbee and Skubarra 2
Thor Buttox Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Mod Note: This discussion is slowly moving away from the original intention of advice on divorce and support for those going through a tough time. If you want to carry on the discussion in the direction that it is please do so on the Gillette thread, as that is where the current line of discussion will have more relevance. Nothing like a bit of vaguely pointless Hub-squabbles to make people going through a hard time realise that things could be worse. Glasses half full and all that! Steven Knoetze (sk27), Amberdrake, Stretch and 1 other 4
Amberdrake Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 Nothing like a bit of vaguely pointless Hub-squabbles to make people going through a hard time realise that things could be worse. Glasses half full and all that!The glass is always full......... it might just be a combination of water and air instead of just water. Just to mess with things a little bit. My little excursion this weekend to get away has gone really well. I went to visit my mom and she needed more than I did. Lazy relaxed and feeling good. Patensie 1
DJR Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 ............... This guy is incredibly sharp. Uses words like precision scalpels. Impressive. She, on the other hand, is just good at trying to put words into his mouth. Interesting. HDW, Captain Fastbastard Mayhem, Steven Knoetze (sk27) and 1 other 4
Amberdrake Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 My lawyer is one seriously scary woman, Nice as can be but wow she went "Ok this is what we doing", the question was implied but wasn't really up for negotiation. I am gonna say one thing though if not for my friend (Best Friends fiance) I don't think anything would have gone nearly as well. Having someone else looking out for your interests makes a difference. She made me tell the lawyer everything(I forget she took notes all during week about everything we talked about). If you're in this position try and have a friend like that around, makes the world of difference. Captain Fastbastard Mayhem, Hairy, Slowbee and 3 others 6
Hacc Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRcD31sA2a0 Amberdrake 1
Amberdrake Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRcD31sA2a0This video is really good!
stefmeister Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 WT actual FMy exact reaction when I learned of this.My cousin broke up with his gf, but still managed to get her pregnant after the fact (I think it was entrapment).He can't make ends meet to pay her maintenance, while she moved off some 600 km. Court orders his parents to foot the child support now, even though they were never married or even lived together. Steven Knoetze (sk27) 1
NotSoBigBen Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 As a grandparent I can only say I would do it if I had to for my grandchild/ grandchildren PhilipV, Skubarra, eddy and 2 others 5
Hairy Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 what about her parents .... it takes two to tango!?!?My exact reaction when I learned of this.My cousin broke up with his gf, but still managed to get her pregnant after the fact (I think it was entrapment).He can't make ends meet to pay her maintenance, while she moved off some 600 km. Court orders his parents to foot the child support now, even though they were never married or even lived together. HDW and Mousea 2
Amberdrake Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 This is scary stuff guys, So now we have to watch our own winky and those of our kids...... really seems silly. I'm sure the law was made with good intentions. Steven Knoetze (sk27) 1
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